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Friday, April 30, 2021
Unplugged and Totally Uncut April 30th
The Missing Dot On The Map
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April 30, 2021
Here we are! But where’s
the dot on the map? You know! The part
of the story that clearly tells us where time has delivered us. This point to that point. As a daily writer, these words are my
photographs. Which I’m horrified to go
back and read. Not that the journey has
been reckless, out of tune or bent in ways that reshape the statue. Mentally speaking. Your past 60 weeks are very much a mile
marker in the heart. To study your
photographs or my writing with all its vibrant truths will keep each of us out
here on the desert. I’m on the front
lines every day. I see you walking,
struggling and trying to piece whatever’s left back together. Let’s break this down. How often do you get caught up in a conversation
that you think is a connection but in reality your heart and soul are
elsewhere? No matter how strong the relationship is, there’s something spinning
around in your head that keeps coming up every time you get with this person.
That’s how I feel about writing! That’s
how you react to the photographs stuffed in the memory banks of that smart
phone. We’ve all experienced more than a
pandemic. We’re overloaded with memories, questions, failures, new challenges
and whatever else we allow to easily slip inside. Here’s the challenge. Leave it off the page. Don’t go anywhere near it. The only sunset photos we keep are the good
ones. The same isn’t true about the way
we think and hoard experiences. Leave it
off the page. We are here. In the present. Right now.
What’s running through your thinker?
Leave it off the page. You’ll see
how a single bad day or moment truly doesn’t need your reasons for wanting to
hold onto things. When I first started my walk through a grocery store life I
hated putting things back on the shelf.
I couldn’t find where they were supposed to go. Every day I spent too much time wandering the
aisles trying to figure out why packages of tuna are in the canned meat
lane. I became instantly angry with
myself and I held it out there for a passerby to feel when they’d reach out and
put a loaf of bread inside the potato chips. Nearly a year later I call it
Easter egg hunting. I turned a horrid
negative caused by other people’s laziness into a game, an adventure, a quest
to be a leader. I took my early bad
experiences off the page. Last night a
guest decided at the last moment that they no longer needed the $228 worth of
groceries in the basket. They left. Do you know what $228’s worth of groceries
looks like? Because I’ve been present with turning a negative into a positive,
it took less than 25 minutes to put everything back. I kept the past off the page. There are many things in your life that can
be compared to this experience and for hours you’ll stew over something that
was just a moment. Don’t make me say
it! Leave it off the page.
Thursday, April 29, 2021
The Lyrics From Billy's Forest Chapter 244
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April 29, 2021
A frozen wet morning inside the forest. The writer’s words on January 31, 2021. A frozen wet morning. I knew something was up the day before. I had come in contact with twelve to fifteen
deer roaming together. Like cattle they
belong to each other for warmth, they feed as one and to protect the
young. To be ready for the soon to
become winter storm. I often think of the
deer as being human. What would they do in this age where we’re still being
asked to keep our gatherings at limited numbers? Being on the front line I fall witness to a
lot parents protecting their little ones. The past year has been rough. Remote learning, a lack of energy to want to
learn, the job front has changed, the dream to overcome is what we did several
months ago. Today we just want it to
back to normal. Our willingness has
turned into extra weight with absolutely no physical evidence of truly gripping
the reins of mental freedom. What would
the deer do? Seriously! In all things they do rarely do I see just
one. They’re masters at walking in
amazing amounts of peace while grouping in the name of affection and
protection. Could they survive how we’ve
been encouraged to separate? As open as
it’s becoming during these April days 2021 is as far away as we remain from the
reality of normal. Being transparent with your open eyes I admit that our
motions and emotions are suffering with no true answer to what it is we
seek. Are we standing on our feet or
given in to defeat? Nothing feels like
it’s changing so we do the best we can.
This isn’t a negative. This is
awareness. Have you ever studied the
habits of a deer? The swishing of the
tail, the quick jerks of the ears and the stamping of the front hoofs in the
dirt. The animal kingdom knows the
way. Instinct is everything. Is that where you are? The daily gut check. This is where we are. This is how we are. This isn’t turning out
the way we dreamed. I know! Let’s find a new way! A frozen wet morning inside the forest. The lesson learned sits in the
temperature. Without each other it’s
very cold. When you reach your new normal accept each other’s changes. The old path no longer exists. You weren’t ghosted by coworkers and friends. Unlike the deer we elected to hide from the
way it was all being done. The goal is
to be seen, heard, loved, believed in, trusted, accepted and more importantly
aware because the next storm truly could be bigger.
Tuesday, April 27, 2021
Unplugged and Totally Uncut April 27th
Today Tuesday April 27th on Unplugged and Totally Uncut!!!
Stream Thinking Getting Time Back
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April 27, 2021
Stream thinking.
Challenging yourself to fill a single page. No editing.
Write about what’s moving through your Now. Gaining access to owning your Now. On April 24th my heart was flooded
with the present workplace. Being
transparent I wanted to know why workforces aren’t sticking together. Post
Covid 19 Lockdown business leaders are facing a new normal in the hands of
those no longer chasing workplace success.
The new age of thinking is to keep your personal plans close to your
heart. To not give away the importance
of discovery and family. It truly feels
like the benefits of having a job aren’t greater than the reasons to stay
away. The reasons for this attitude are
very clear. In America the government
has stood beside us. For millions rent
still isn’t due. How many stimulus
checks have you received? In America
school students were given notebooks and computers then taught on Zoom. For adults the movie industry didn’t shut
down. The decision makers located a
streaming outlet Hulu, Netflix, Disney+, Paramount+ and HBO Max. We’ve evolved into a binge watching
generation without the burning need or desire to create workplace drive,
passion, loyalty and perseverance. In
America the food lines were haunting but what do the credit card statements
look like for those who ordered their dinners then picked it up curbside? We wonder why people don’t want to work. The idea of driving to work then walking into
a large building feels too much like 2019.
Having less is priceless. Less
stress. Less expectation. Less of a need to be part of a team. For a
very brief moment in global history every person on the planet felt what it was
like to have enough room to create and bring to life a choice. I was with T.D.
Jakes yesterday. We talked about the new
workplace. He was extremely strong in
his support for the changed employee.
Leaders are going to have to break free old habits and commands. The
workplace isn’t sticking together because we’re all carrying the weight of
personal pain. We’re fighting a storm we can’t explain. We aren’t being selfish. We just don’t understand or want to take the
time to openly admit our mental sickness.
Therefore people have labeled it what they think. Turning it into a season of disconnection and
not collaboration. I’m no expert. I face
the same challenges but I choose not to stay away. My values are located in the receiver. Collaborating with the guest or client. Watching life move through them when the
product just purchased now belongs to them. I’ve been on a 7 day workday plan
since September 2020. Staying positive during
the 9th hour is a choice. My
new normal is less of me and more about those who receive. It creates a new space for
collaborating. With whom? You. No
matter how many employees move through our place of business, the relationship
still exists with those who receive.
Friday, April 23, 2021
Unplugged and Totally Uncut April 23rd
Friday! Friday! April 23rd. Today on Unplugged and Totally Uncut.
The Placement Of Thought
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April 23, 2021
The placement of thought.
Where shall it land? Will it grow?
Was it wise to bring it forward?
Who am I to think such a feeling needed to be seen and or heard? The placement of thought. I could never do modern day Talk Radio. Politics are like religion. Expect to lose a lot of connections. I’m not really into sports. If they could get the game over in 30 minutes
or less you might have my attention.
During these days of radio evolution, the politics of the vocal sport is
still seen as a profitable opportunity for radio station owners to always brag
about how their position on the dial is every bit worthy of why you should be
advertising. In an age of so many
choices and instant favorite songs on YouTube, I’m blown away by the enormous
egos that terrestrial radio continues to cling to. Not bashing!
It’s a placement of thought. I
don’t know who’s more blind, a mouse or the station owner that fired their
staff during the pandemic and they still have the balls to call themselves
local. Every one of us have social media to put on display our thoughts. Social media has the power to erase your
thoughts. To silence your willingness to
share thoughts. I endlessly feel
embarrassed for the person nearby that’s having face to face time and every bit
of their conversation is broadcast in what little space is available. Mom’s yelling at kids. Friends talking junk. The grocery list is never complete until you
leave the store because someone’s always gonna call and demand that you pick something
else up. The placement of thought. What is your source? How does it arrive? How long does it take you
to trust you? What if what you think no
longer matters? Hmm I wonder if my
parents felt that way when I was 18 and already married. At nearly 59 I look back at that decision
making moment and still call it one of the best made. I had a thought. So I activated it. Whoa.
What if you found reason to take your thoughts out of hiding and put it
out there for others to see, hear, experience and quite possibly throw
away. It’s when you don’t share your
thoughts that time has a way of poisoning the moment. You’re putting us in a vat full of assumption. Not judgement. Assumption.
Without communication. Without thoughts.
We’re left to create our own.
Thursday, April 22, 2021
Unplugged and Totally Uncut April 22nd
Today Thursday April 22nd on Unplugged and Totally Uncut!!!
The Lyrics From Billy's Forest Chapter 243
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April 22, 2021
The sights unseen still carry energy. Is it coming from history or the presence of
the present? The sights unseen. Is it a
moment of connection that generates empowerment or is it a series of stories that
which were required to make it known this day growing forward? The sights
unseen. Judgement without truly
knowing. People are a sight that is
unseen. Meaning if we don’t know the
moments before the greeting it still has energy from a past that could infect
the collaboration. In martial arts it
was mandatory that we knew the history of every move and form. Through its history we grew to understand the
plan and purpose. Life should be no
different. Look at today’s mass
shootings. Sights unseen. The history sits right there in front of
those before the moment but nothings done until confronted by the action. On a
more peace filled level I ask if you’ve come to terms with who you are today. How you got here and what’s expected to be
delivered. Participating with the
process of growth. Everything we do is
swayed by decisions of participation.
The sights unseen can’t remain a mystery. Or we’re giving permission to others to give
birth to our personal image. How people
accept you determines your cause and effect.
There might be forgiveness. There
will always be challenge. The daily
mission is to be seen. But in whose eyes?
How do we grow fruit from this? Our limbs are heavy. They provide food for thought but who’s
taking it? School teachers are being brutally
treated by students and parents refusing to readjust to being in class. Those learning were given a year off while
being passed on to the next level of learning without being properly
tested. Respecting someone’s fruit so
freely shared turns the apple on the tree into an invisible source of possibility
because like music and movies, we believe all things should be handed to us and
not earned. Sights unseen. Nobody wants to see their kids suffering in
the classroom so they create friction by way of demanding an easing up of the
expectation. The sight unseen isn’t
today but rather 10 years from today.
The student that quit learning now lives in a self-designed mental prison
of little hope and a fear of the word perseverance. Structuring your life should be a
mandatory. Discipline your mind body and
soul and get this planet moving again.
Saying your job sucks proves nothing.
Admitting to it opens the door for new opportunities. What sucks is how you won’t change the fruit
on your limbs. Sights unseen. Your future.
What’s your decision today? It
will control your tomorrow.
Tuesday, April 20, 2021
Unplugged and Totally Uncut April 20th
Today Tuesday April 20th on Unplugged and Totally Uncut!!!
Stream Thinking Covid Homes
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April 20, 2021
I call them “Covid Homes.”
We’ve all got them in our neighborhoods.
Covid Homes! They aren’t for
sale. They’re lifeless. The yards are somewhat mowed. The trees sort of trimmed. But the owners haven’t been seen since the
start of the pandemic in March of 2020. Every
one of us walk or drive by them. I’m talking about homes that were once vibrant
with cars parked in the driveway and neighbors seen talking to each other. A year and month later the people are still
gone! Covid Homes. If something such as Covid 19 made them ill,
why are the homes still sitting empty during a time when the New York Times is
screaming, “The housing market has gone empty. What’s happening on the inside
of a Covid Home? Does it affect the
value of the hood? The Covid Home looks approachable to the passerby but they’ve
been empty for a very long time. Can
these empty dots on a Google Map be haunted? I would love to step inside! Out here, we’ve moved forward in time. In there.
Time is frozen. It’s exactly the
way it was left all those weeks and months ago.
It reminds me of April and May of last year. We took our daily walks through strip mall
parking lots. Looking inside the stores
that were forced to stop. The posters on
the wall were stuck in February and March. Many of the businesses never
recovered. What lurks within the framing
of a Covid Home? Does it smell like
dust? Has the paint on the walls
faded? The oil spots on the garage floor
have they dried? I want to step
inside. For we all know every home has its
own personality. I want to go inside to
just listen to the moments of what it was like and is like when time stands
still.
Friday, April 16, 2021
Unplugged and Totally Uncut April 16th